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1 year ago by Anonymous Pineapple

What is the hardest part of being a single mother?

I have this friend that has been living far from me in another city for 7 years. She got married and moved there. She has a four year old boy with a little anger problems but usually a cute kid. I think the cause of his anger being at home most of the time because you know he had to be born into lockdowns etc... Last year he started school and my friend got her some free time thanks to that. She is trying to continue her hobbies. But her husband's family is very conservative. They are always trying to hold her back from her dreams and needs. Details are complicated but she said that she wants to divorce. I was shocked because she loves her husband. This was anger talk I assume. But she sounded so serious. Should I encourage or discourage her? She will be a single mom if she divorces. This is a very confusing situation for me because I don't have a kid. How hard is it to be a single mom? I want to help her but I don't want to make things worse. What should I do?
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Anonymous Watermelon

I would say it's not having a good cop bad cop roles , while you are a single super mom , you cant be the good cop and bad cop at the same place and time like when you have with a couple.
Another thing would be dating , it's extremly difficult to find some who is nice and understanding , it's hard to find the time and effort
I know that it's harsh reality but that how it Is

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11 months ago

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Don’t really understand this. She loves her husband, she has a healthy and happy kid but she wants to divorce because of her in-laws? If I were in her shoes, I wouldn’t give up my family for this. Maybe your friend can talk with her husband and put some distance with his family. Move away maybe, I don’t know. It’s terrible that parents think they are entitled to meddle with the lives of their grown-up children.

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1 year ago

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Anonymous Orange

Being a single mother is really hard because you would have to juggle your job and the kids at the same time. However, its doable and many people have done it before. If she really wants a divorce, then as her friend you should try and support her as much as possible

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1 year ago

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