In work, a lot of conflicts will arise and we always hear things like "communication is key" bla bla But really what we should be doing is fixing our mindsets from the get go. Our brains should solution oriented, rather than just do the work and blame someone else. We need to learn conflicts will happen but we need to adress them as adults and manage things smoothly.

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The message to women at work: pretend to have a man’s body and you will succeed. Never discuss period cramps, ew gross, this is a business setting! Don’t talk about menopause or maybe it’s time to be replaced! Pregnancy? A personal problem. Hide it all. Pretend to not be nauseous, that’s more convenient to us. Jump back in right after birth, yes bleeding and weeping, just don’t show us your rawness or tears. What now you need to leave a meeting to “empty your breasts”? We don’t want to know that! And, we did, we hid our womanhood. We hid our motherbodies. We all did. We had to, out of of survival. And at the same time, we see the praise of the fathers for doing the same things we do at home. “Your husband changes diapers? And wakes up with the babies? Wow you’re so lucky.” Am I? I’m working through periods and pregnancy and postpartum and pumping. And I ALSO have to pretend like it’s no big deal. Am I “so lucky” that my partner is capable of the SAME functions of parenting as me? That he’s capable of using his hands to make sandwiches and and his body to comfort OUR children just like me? Or should that just be the expectation just as I’m expected to work like I have a man’s body.

Hustle culture ends up putting people under heaps and heaps and heaps of work pressure in the long run if they undertake too many things without even first developing good working habits. Don't throw yourself under that bus. It starts with you just taking one task, finishing it, then take two, then three, then you learn how to juggle. Don't just jump into it. Time management takes time.

1- Wake up early! 2- Have a clear idea of all tasks needed to be done for the day 3- Arrange a quick little schedule for the day if you haven't already 4- Stick to the schedule! Rinse and repeat. As soon as you wake up early things get easier

I feel like sometimes at least 50% of our pressure would get so much easier if we just look for ways of being more productive. I hate having unproductive days so much it feels so unfulfilling