First time mom here to a 10 month old baby girl. I'm single too..
I started doing playdates with other babies recently, and noticed that my baby is THAT baby that hits, scratches, and headbutts other kids :(
Other babies seem to play so well with one another -- I mean theres the normal taking each others toys and crying -- but my baby get SUPER upset when someone takes her toy and takes it back aggressively and then hits the other baby!
I kept saying, no, and put her in the corner (she doesnt react to this at all -- continues to play by herself).
When I hold both of her hands, so she cant hit, she will use her head and bang it against the other baby!
What the heck do I do? I can't go to other peoples houses anymore...I feel like a terrible mom...