I am a 45 years old woman and for some time I am planning to having a cat eye surgery and upper lid surgery also known as bleforaplasty. People on social media seems like they have the biggest supporter of body positivity movement but when it comes to plastic surgery or aesthetic operations, they are like oh woww that's Bigg and they start discouraging, explaining how the society push me into having those kind of operations and I should be happy with myself and bls bla bla. I just don't get it why people can't be happy for other people and respect my decision?