Do you think that divorce is a good solution in case parents are fighting a lot? is there any other solution before reaching that?

In a day and age where being fat is now healthy, do you make sure you’re taking care of your physical health? Unfortunately when we get married we tend to let go of ourselves over time, wether you just had a kid, or you’ve just been married along time. Do you keep up with yourself for your spouse? Now I’m not saying you have to be a size 2 to be healthy. But I am saying that you should try just as hard as you did to get your spouse after you have them. Do you take care of your hygiene properly and regularly? Do you get physically activity everyday? Do you eat properly? Take your vitamins?

We can all have our opinions and our perceptions, we can live the exact same experience, yet we see things slightly differently, we are all capable of adding bits into a story and taking bits out, seeing bits others didn’t, not seeing parts others did, however when it comes to a narcissist, it can be like they weren’t even in the same building, let alone lived the same experience, as they leave out what doesn’t suit them, add parts in which helps them, or switch the topic of conversation onto something completely different that in some way is beneficial to them, often with twisted truths, half lies or exaggerations in which the narcissist is the grandiose hero, with that charismatic charm, their arrogance as the continually point out their superpowers, how amazing they are, exaggerating how much they have, while pointing out others flaws, or the fragile, vulnerable woe is me victim, whereby nobody has ever had it quite as bad as they’ve had, nobody has suffered as much as they did, and they will be claiming others are the villain as to a narcissist they do no wrong, others do, however, narcissistic people see themselves as superior and better than thou, narcissists play the hero or the victim, yet they never tell the truth, they never admit to being the villain, unless the say “that’s right blame me, I knew it would be my fault, I forgot you were perfect.” To get you to feel bad for calling them out.

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Who do you think divorce affect more, the man or woman?

Do you act with your head or your heart?

When researching newlywed couples, Gottman found that they respond to each other's bids for connection in one of three ways:⁠ ⁠ ✨They turn toward⁠ ⁠ ✨They turn away⁠ ⁠ ✨They turn against⁠ ⁠ When Gottman followed the newlywed couples over several years, he found that those who were still married six years later turned toward each other 86% of the time.⁠ ⁠ Those who divorced before six years? They only turned toward each other 33% of the time. This is a pretty good argument for learning to make more attempts at connection and practice responding to those attempts. ⁠ ⁠

So you enter into this "agreement" to love one another til death do us part. But what if the person u think you're marrying is just pretending at the alter, and does nothing more than to use you? To provide for them. To give them what they want. But they want to give nothing. And you live emotionally alone and worse than alone with them. And they suck u dry if every resource and never intended to love u. Is that a marriage? Marriage is bigger than rings, and bigger than a legal document. Marriage is never absent of connection.